Children could be so emotionally affected, more so if they are of the age where they are starting to think and evaluate situations around them. It is the prime duty of parents to respect the child's feelings. Don't let your child be confused. Let him or her know the real situation, why parents have to go separate ways. In the beginning it would be hard for the child to understand, but with constant communication, he or she could understand later. Always set regular visiting hours, talk with him or her like you are talking to a mature person, make the effort not to talk ill or badmouth your partner in front of the child, do not argue in front of him, be civil or well-mannered when in front of the child, and let them understand what is going on.
Explain to your child whatever changes might take place in lieu of the separation. You could tell your child that later in life he or she could understand why decisions like that had to be made, and compensate for whatever abrupt changes that will take place by your unending love, understanding and time for the child. Try not flood your child with gifts or material things in exchange for your precious time with them. And if you noticed changes in your child behavior, whether aggressive or passive, consult a child psychologist and his or her teacher for immediate remedy. In school, you could ask the teachers if he or she is performing or behaving well, because a child can redirect his or her emotions to either doing good in school or performing poorly; by being bully or be bullied. The child could resort to extreme behaviors to cope with the situation. Either they would be an emotional eater or he or she will not eat at all. These are common behaviors that a child can adopt as a coping mechanism.
If the parent have a new partner, let the partner interact or bond with him or her. Let your partner know the likes/dislikes of your child and understand it. Try not to force the child to immediately like your partner. Some activities like playing, watching favorite cartoons together, doing house works together like cooking his or her favorite food, walking together, and other constant interaction and activities can help the child in his adjustment period. If the wife who has the child was left alone and had to have a day job, let a relative or a nanny who is very responsible attend to the child when you are out of the house. While at work, see to it that you will always communicate with the child from time to time, whenever possible. Let him or her know that you have to work for the family's finances.
Time will help, just always think positively that everything will be alright for your child and for your family.
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